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Pathological accommodation is a deeply ingrained psychological defense that forms when an individual unconsciously adapts their feelings, needs, and behaviours to align with others, often to preserve crucial attachments—especially when those bonds are traumatically threatened. Originating in early childhood, this dynamic shapes how individuals relate to others and themselves, leaving a lasting impact that can extend into adulthood. In this webinar, we will explore Brandchaft's theory of pathological accommodation, focusing on how, from infancy, children learn to suppress their true selves to maintain connection with significant figures, particularly caregivers. In these early relational contexts, the child internalizes the belief that love and belonging can only be achieved by denying their own needs and desires.

We will delve into the unconscious organizing principles and affective sequences that give rise to this pattern, exploring how it develops in childhood and evolves into adulthood, leading to relational dysfunction and emotional distress. Participants will gain valuable insights into how these early patterns influence adult relationships and self-concept. The webinar will also offer practical strategies for working with patients displaying pathological accommodation, with a focus on transference interventions and helping individuals reclaim their authentic selves from the entanglements of early relational traum